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Purchase a Foreign Wife?
Sunday, September 28, 2008


i cant help but to notice this family that were sitting beside my table over dinner. i cant quite figure out which is the wife though. the two kids have got a very different features. the lil boy , slightly tanned wth glasses on , looks like young Harry Potter n the daughter, fair but unfortunately has got a cleft lips. its such a pity to see that. anyway , i was thinkin , perhaps both of them are not the man's children but then it got me thinkin , the man looks like he's in his middle age , say bout 50ish or so n there's another lady of similar age and than this , foreign wife or perhaps its the helper.

then it came across my mind on the article i came across a while back , some men actually "purchase" a foreign wife via match making agencies. well i guess i can pretty much understand why men even go to that extend. perhaps they are of certain age n they are afraid that there's no hope to get married to the locals so they opt for the foreign wife idea. well its a pretty sad thing to know that jst because you need to start a family n when there's no options avail u do this (purchase a wife for yourself) n wht if you cant live with that future wife to be? dont you think u're destroyin both ur life n the other? but more often then not , i heard that foreign wife (women in the 3rd world countries, especially those living in rampant poverty) of such are very givin in the sense that they feel that they are obligated to do a lot since that man is her husband and that he is to provide a better life as compared to where she was in. well i guess in such a case , there's nothin much a woman can do but to give in so-called faith ,thats wht some believe.

but even up to now , some women who are in better place than those livin in 3rd world countries n in poverty , still depend intemperately on the guy! i guess at the end of the day , its all bout choices n wht they want for themselves.

2 Comments.


speaking of foreign wivfe, i have actually seen a foreign wife having lunch with her kid one afternoon. i wonder what life is for these foreigners to marry a local here and knowing that their husbands could be abusive... negligent ... and die earlier than them? it's OK if the husband sayang them but what if the husband is abusive? i feel so ... emoting...

i think it makes no different for a girl to be in an arranged marriage ... that's the feeling of the foreign wife feels. and my friend is in an arranged marriage.

of the food. i'm in kl but i sometimes go to penang for business trip and kacau jolenesiah. so if i happen to go to penang i will pay u a visit. and... me food tasting? wah lau ... i will charge u then.. [just joking]
» renaye on 2008-09-28 09:02:00

meow meow. wah i have to pay for to taste ur food and if i were to write a review dessert would be complimentary? should i just receive free lunch from u then i ive u valuable feedback? :D

i actually have thoughts of being a food reviewer or food taster.. XD
» renaye on 2008-09-28 11:40:41

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